Our country renowned educationalist Mr. Tao Xingzhi once pointed out: before 6 years old,newborn baby clothes, is the personality influences the most important time, this time raise's good, later only need take advantage of opportunity raises, becomes the social fine member naturally; Supposing raises not well, then the custom became has not been easy to move, the manner went bad has not been instable. These children enter to the school, the teacher necessary expense completely tremendous strength corrects the bad custom which they already formed, the bad tendency,outdoor toddler toys, the bad manner, is really a wasted effort.
As soon as speaks of the child question, time we are many what cared: The child has eaten to the full? Leng Zhuo? Long? However gives the child in us the sufficient nutrition, develops his intelligence time, we actually very little thought how to raise child's moral character question. British philosopher Bacon has said: The custom is one tenacious strength, may control person's life. Bacon's these words said have raised person's good quality custom importance. Our China also has three years old to decide 80 proverb. These words also promulgated have raised person's good quality, the behavior, was familiar with the importance and the necessity.
How then in our family can raise child's personal character?
Parents' education manner
Home education's heavy responsibility fell on guardian's shoulder, now the only child are many, guardian's education manner had the tremendous influence regarding child's growth. Said simply, if protects, does not interfere, the reasonable education manner raise child, easy to cause the child to raise has leadership, the manner is friendly, receives the human to welcome very much, but guardian, if adopts the rejection, the interference, spoils, oppression manner, then these on child's body's demonstration are the suitable differentials, dependent does, how want what kind.
Must set up the example image
As the saying goes: The example strength is infinite. What the child contacts since childhood are most is the parents, parents' words and deeds manner, will watch with the tail of eye naturally, bears in mind, the determination not on own initiative will study, imitation.
Child's immature mind has no time chastely. We then insist the positive education, sets up the positive typical image to the child, can cause the child forever to be confident, and study person example. The education method is many, in the daily teaching activity, may use tells the story, the map-read narrated, comes the way to carry on raises child's moral character. Carries on the positive education and the induction in the parents to the child, must have the regularity and the endurance. At the same time, must make the responsibility by the body, teaches by personal example and so on. Let the child in the education which influences subtly form the good moral character.
Grasps the education the opportunity
The opportunity is refers to carries on the activity or the lifecycle has the timely advantageous opportunity, educates to the child also has the opportunity question.
The education opportunity often displays in the following several aspects: When the child obtains is successful, guardian after encouragement, may propose the new request, after playing, suspended neat the toy to be better; When the child receives the setback, the guardian wants to care that helps the child to correct the shortcoming; When the child has the interest to something, the guardian adroitly guides action according to circumstances, guides the child to form the good behavior custom; When the child gets angry is excited, the guardian must be calm, after and so on children tranquil, educates again; When the child falls ill, when is weary, the guardian is best the few requests, cared, but gives in no way.
Starts from the simple work to start
1st, self-service work. Let the child achieve own matter to do, oneself put on clothes, washes the face, cleans the teeth, eats meal,jazzy toes baby socks, tidies up the bunk, the toy and so on. The self-service work can raise the coherence which and independent life ability the baby lives, and will build the foundation for later.
2nd, suitable housework. May let the child wash the tableware, does the room cleaning, removes inedible portions of vegetables, buys the small goods on the vicinity and so on. The suitable housework can strengthen the child to family member's care loving care, simultaneously, causes after the work the child grows up clearly to use own both hands to create the happy life.
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